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10 ways to attract the Best Man for You!

1.) Know who you are – if you don’t know who you are you can’t expect anything from anyone else. A man who knows who he is will be able to tell if you know who you are.

2.) Be transparent and honest from the start – there is no need to play guessing games. If you want to attract the best man he needs to know that you are a no nonsense kind of woman.

3.) Be what you want to attract – you will not attract something you are not. The energy you put out into the world will be exactly what you attract.

4.) Have standards – don’t settle for someone just because he’s a nice guy. There are plenty of nice guys out there, but there are slim pickings for the best one for you.

5.) Demand respect – many times women think that respect is automatically given, while this may seem logical you’re presentation and your conversation will go a long way to establish that respect is a must.

6.) Understand his past – everyone has a past, but unless you’ve known where a person has been you have no idea who they are and where they are going. How you start doesn’t have to determine how you finish, but many times it can give u an indication.

7.) Family – How does he treat his family? Is family important to him? All families have their share of problems, but if family is not important to him this could be a red flag.

8.) Finance – Does he have bad credit?, Spends money impulsively?, etc. How a person(s) manages their money is important. Having a financial plan for the future is as important as maintaining good health.

9.) Communication – Most men don’t know how to express their emotions. Effective communication is essential to any healthy and long-term relationship. If he can’t talk to you, you may as well be talking to yourself.

10.) Must believe in God and have an evolving relationship with him – you don’t have to be a church goer, but you must understand that God is everything and without him nothing is possible. If he thinks that its because of his own doing that he is blessed, pray for him and keep it moving.


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